By Michèle C. St.Amour
When someone we love is dying, our instinct is to hold on. To stay close. To pour ourselves into
them with every touch, every moment of presence, every ounce of our attention.
This comes from love. But it may be the very thing making their passage harder.
The Science of the Soul: When It’s Time, It’s Time
There is a truth that brings both comfort and challenge: when a person’s time is up, we cannot
stop it. We do not have that power.
According to the science of the soul, the timing of death follows a specific pattern. The soul
knows three years before the actual event that this lifetime is coming to completion. Three
months before, the specific circumstances and date become set. And the process of crossing over
itself, when uninterrupted, takes approximately three days.
Three years. Three months. Three days. The Power of Three.
This is the natural rhythm of the soul easing out of a physical body. We cannot change the
outcome – but we can absolutely affect how that three-day process unfolds.The Energetic Truth About Dying
After thirty-five years of working with people through life’s most profound transitions, I’ve
witnessed something that rarely gets discussed: the dying sometimes linger not because they
aren’t ready to go, but because they’re being energetically tethered by the people who love them
most.
When we hold their hand with desperation, when we refuse to leave their side, when we silently
beg them to stay – we transfer our life force directly to them. We become their grounding force,
which can be compared to an anchor holding a ship in place. We ground them here when their
soul is trying to release.
And this process depletes us. It makes us vulnerable, prone to exhaustion. In the end, it threatens
our ability to fulfill our true obligation – which is to ease their crossing. That is what love would
ask of us.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness.
Every time we touch someone, there is an energy exchange. In everyday life, this is natural –
though not always healthy. This is why we must learn about Chakaura energy and its behind-the-
scenes actions, in fact grounding all our life experiences. But when someone is actively dying,
their soul is working to disconnect from the physical body. When we pour our life force into
them through physical contact, intense focus, or our own inability to let go, we inadvertently feed
them energy that keeps them grounded to a body that is ready to release.
The result? Prolonged suffering. A crossing that should take three days stretches into weeks. A
peaceful release becomes a struggle.
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